When you go for a psychic reading, or attend one online, you and your reader both want you to have the best possible experience, and to come away from your reading feeling that you’ve got some answers, or some peace of mind. There are steps you can take yourself to help you get the very best from your psychic reading – it’s not all down to your psychic.
Do Your Homework
The most important consideration if you want a good psychic reading is to make sure you feel comfortable with your reader. If you’ve never met before, or if you’re meeting online, it’s up to you to have researched your choice of psychic thoroughly. Ask friends for recommendations, or check out the psychic’s testimonials online. Although you can’t tell whether you and a stranger will “click”, you can easily find out whether others have been happy with their readings from this person.
Keep an Open Mind
Whether you’re a confirmed believer or a psychic skeptic having a reading out of curiosity, it’s vital that you approach your psychic reading with an open mind. Most psychics will tell you that their biggest problem is often the client’s own attitude. If you go into it with a negative aura, the psychic will struggle. Instead, be ready and willing to hear what your reader has to say, and to understand it. Send your love, positivity and energy to your psychic, as the best psychics will pick up on this and use it to help deepen the reading.
Know Why You’re There
It’s OK to have a psychic reading “just because”, but the most effective readings are the ones with purpose. Be clear in your own mind what it is that you want from your reading. Are you looking for guidance over a particular problem? Are you hoping for a medium to connect with your spirit loved ones? Or are you just after a psychic “check up” or “weather forecast”? If there’s a particular issue you want to address, it helps if you have a list of written questions you can refer to – that way when you have the opportunity to ask, your mind won’t have gone blank.
Work With the Psychic’s Style, Not Against It
If your psychic likes to ask you a lot of questions, they’re not necessarily cheating! Some psychics do ask questions and seek clarification as they go along; others will ask you barely anything, or specifically tell you not to say anything other than yes or no. Fit in with how your psychic works – after all, if you’ve done your homework, you’ll know this in advance and will be happy with the style of your psychic reading.
Don’t Be a Reader Pleaser
It’s not your job as a client to feed your reader’s ego. If you don’t understand or can’t take what they’re telling you, say so. A psychic would much prefer you to seek clarification there and then, rather than just keep saying yes and then go away complaining about your reading. Even the best psychics and mediums can have an off day, so if your reading isn’t making sense, speak up nicely and say so! Give your reader a chance to explain what they’re getting in another way, or to seek back up information which helps it all make sense.